As I sit around and look at everyone I know I have to wonder how life can get so turned around. I see people who were once quick to judge that are now worrying now about being the one judged. I see people who seem happy on the outside and if you look deep down and listen hard enough they are just as miserable as the next person. SO I have to ask the question.... why do people let the thoughts of others influence our decisions in life? It is our life so we need to make decisions on what makes us happy and not on what others may think of us. Don't buy that item just to be cool, don't date that person just to make your friend happy, don't stay in a relationship out of fear of hurting that someone....and so on.
When doing things in life they have to be done for your own self gratification. It may hurt someones feelings but in the end you will all be better off. Pain does take time to heal so why hold off on the inevitable until the pain will become almost unbearable?
